after a while

my baby jasmine :)

With Age Comes Wisdom

After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul.

And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning, and company doesn't mean security.

And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts, and presents aren't promises.

And you begin to accept your defeats with your head held high and your eyes open, with the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child.

And you learn to build your roads on today, because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans, and futures have a way of falling down in midflight.

After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much so you plant your own garden, and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

And you learn that you really can endure that you really are strong a

nd you really do have worth and you learn and learn with every goodbye you learn.

-unknown author-

we say experience is the best teacher.
but...isn't everything is preordained according to His order? :)
alhamdulillah for each and every lesson learnt.
the best teacher comes from the Best Provider.
all praise be to Allah swt.

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